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Physical Activity Mentor Program for Kids with Disabilities

We are READY for mentors to join our Program and begin right away!

Click here to download a copy of our informational mentoring brochure. (Requires Adobe Acrobat Reader)     

  • "Active and Healthy Lifestyles for Children and Youth with Disabilities" is participating in a national initiative called "I Can Do It, You Can Do It" mentor program through the U.S. Health and Human Service Department-Office on Disability. http://www.hhs.gov/od/inauguration.html

  • We are looking for individuals to mentor participants with disabilities between the ages of 5-18 in the La Crosse area. 

  • The program requires 2-3 hours of physical activity each the week for a minimum of 6 weeks.  The mentors/mentee can stay in the programs as long as they would like as long as they are benefiting from the physical activity. 

  • Placements include programs in area youth-service agencies, after school programs, home visits, or community-based physical activity one on one with the mentor/mentee.   

  • We are looking for motivated mentors 18 years or older who will encourage individuals with disabilities, allow them to feel success, and feel great about themselves and what they are doing through physical activity.  In order to become a Physical Activity Mentor, you need to attend an orientation meeting to learn procedures and expectations of the program, attend a 2-3 hour training session once you are matched up with your mentee to learn about your mentees disability, emergency procedures, behavioral situations, adaptations for equipment, and modifications for a specific sport and/or activity.

  • Program staff will match the mentors/mentees, then mentors will contact the parent/guardian of the mentee and a meeting will be arranged for the initial meeting session between the mentor, mentee, parents/guardians, and program staff.

  • Programs with the mentors/mentees are set up based on the needs of the mentee.

  • Mentors and parents of participants need to fill out an application which can be received through Shelley Wetzel - Grant Coordinator 608.785.8695 or wetzel.shel@uwlax.edu

"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything at all." - Muhammad Ali

My choice is easy. Can you make the same one?
(Touching Story take 3 minutes to read it)

What would you do? You make the choice! Don't look for a punch line; There isn't one! Read it anyway.  My question to all of you is: Would you have made the same choice?  At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.  After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do.  He cannot understand things as other children do.  Where is the natural order of things in my son?"  The audience was stilled by the query. The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child."  Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,” Do you think they’ll let me play?"  Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not
want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.  Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and a few boys nodded approval, why not? So he took matters into his own hands and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning." Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted.  In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands.  In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.  Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat.  Every one knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.  However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.  The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman... Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.  Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all teammates.  Every one from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!"  Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base.  By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.  Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home. All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay" Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home!"  Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team.  That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world."  Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

Click here to download an Adobe pdf copy of the Mentor Orientation Packet

Click here to download an Adobe pdf copy of the Parent Orientation Packet

For more information on any of these opportunities or if you want to get started,

Contact
Shelley Wetzel - Grant Coordinator for
"Active and Healthy Lifestyles for Children and Youth with Disabilities"

608.785.8695
University of Wisconsin-La Crosse
115 Wittich Hall
La Crosse, WI 54601
E-mail:  wetzel.shel@uwlax.edu

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 "Active and Healthy Lifestyles for Children and Youth with Disabilities", funded by the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health through the Wisconsin Partnership Fund for a Healthy Future. 
University of Wisconsin-La Crosse, 115 Wittich Hall, La Crosse, WI 54601
Phone:  608.785.8695        E-mail: 
wetzel.shel@uwlax.edu
Published by:  Shelley Wetzel - Monday, January 28, 2008 12:43 PM